Things Not To Say To Pregnant Women

Heyy Friends! I have been gone from writing for a while because I’m expecting a baby boy! His father and I are very excited!  When I found out that I was pregnant I had so many emotions that I didn’t feel like writing anything for a long time.  It was a happy time for me,…

Finally! A Black Owned Ethical Hair Company!

If you have been with me for a while, then you know that I vowed to give up weave. I had many reasons why. If you would like to see all of my various reasons please read my previous blog “Why I Won’t Be Wearing Weaves For A While.” Long story short, it all started…

Dating Outside Of The Culture

I have been dating my Black British boyfriend for a little over a year, and the assumptions that people make and the questions that people ask can get to be pretty ridiculous.  I get mad sometimes, but then I realize that media often portrays people in a very limited way (as they do all over…

I Don’t Need More Friends in 2020 and Beyond

I will start by saying that I value friendship. My close friends are like family to me. I am not the girl who says “I don’t have any female friends” or “I don’t get along with women.”  I do not feel that my gender is inferior. Women are more than capable of getting along with one…

How I’m Doing during Coronavirus

A lot has been going on. I haven’t written in a while because I am someone who only likes to write when I have something to say. I hope that all of you are doing well and staying safe. If you need to talk make sure you email me heyyfriendblog@gmail.com As an introvert I was…

How To Make: My Partner Listen

Serves: 2 Prep time: A while! Please be patient. Total time: Forever… once you get started you will have to continue. Ingredients Attentiveness | 2 drizzles Kindness | 3 cups An Open Mind | 1 whole unbiased mind Humility | 1 whole soul Patience | A dash of calm Compromise | 1 pinch (to taste)…

Out Of Wedlock

Let me start by saying I am open minded. If you are not this may not be for you. In my life I have been exposed to different religions.  Some were because of my mother who is a devoted Christian and others because I took an interest in religion as a teenager and wanted to…

Living In Uncertainty

Let’s be honest.  Most of us enjoy knowing where are headed tomorrow, where our next check is coming from, whether or not we can see family or plan trips.  Unfortunately, that it not a luxury that most of us have right now. Living in uncertainty is hard.  I would say that most of the fights,…

Why I Won’t Be Wearing Weaves For A While

Let me start by saying that I have been a long time fan of hair weaves!  I have had every color weave you can think of.  Hair weaves give us the versatility to do so many different looks. Hair weaves can be so much fun. In high school I wore so many weaves people would…