I have been thinking about deleting my Facebook for months, and I’ve finally done it. I felt so much lighter when I did. I know that people often talk about comparing themselves to other people when on social media, but that wasn’t why I wanted to close my page. I don’t worry myself with what…

Have you ever had a job that made you cry? I had a job that I hated so much that I would literally cry at my desk.  I had a job that I hated so much that I would come home from work and immediately go to sleep.  When I would wake up in the…

The short answer to how I am surviving multitasking is BARELY. 2019 has been an extremely busy year for me. I am responsible for my mother with memory loss, I have 2 jobs, I have a boo, and I just moved to a new state to name a few. I feel like I struggle with…

I was diagnosed with Systemic Lupus when I was 24 years old, but I was suffering with symptoms long before then. Most days I feel great. Most days I am full of life and my brain can thinks a million thoughts a minute. Sadly, every now and again I have a day when lupus decides…

It seems these days that when people need relationship advice and do not know where to go, they turn to social media and online gurus. These gurus will (for a fee) try to teach women what men like. If you aren’t able to pay a small fee, you can always look online or read memes…

They say you live and you learn, and now that I am in my thirties I can agree. I look back on my twenties and there is definitely some advice that I would give my younger self. I don’t think my younger self would listen, but this may be helpful to someone. I Didn’t Work…

In my life right now I feel so unrestricted.  I feel so free of mental limitations that the expectations of other people have placed on me in the past. I think that so many times people are confined in their lives by the idea that they have to live up to a certain ideal or…

I hope that all of you are doing fantastic.  I announced on my Instagram (Heyy_Friend_) that I would be doing a question and answer blog.  I had you all email me (HeyyFriendBlog@gmail.com) whatever questions that you would like for me to answer.  I have chosen not use anyone’s name because it best to keep everyone’s…

I was having a conversation with a friend of mine and he said “you always see people on Facebook talking about their haters, but you never see anyone admitting to being a hater. Who are the haters?” I thought this was an interesting question. Do the people who hate and wish ill will to others…

We have all had those “friends” who talk bad about us behind our backs. They are the type of people who will always be there for you when we need a helping hand, but will criticize you when you are doing well.  This has happened to me more times than I can count. This is…