Out Of Wedlock

Let me start by saying I am open minded. If you are not this may not be for you. In my life I have been exposed to different religions.  Some were because of my mother who is a devoted Christian and others because I took an interest in religion as a teenager and wanted to…

How To Make: My Partner Listen

Serves: 2 Prep time: A while! Please be patient. Total time: Forever… once you get started you will have to continue. Ingredients Attentiveness | 2 drizzles Kindness | 3 cups An Open Mind | 1 whole unbiased mind Humility | 1 whole soul Patience | A dash of calm Compromise | 1 pinch (to taste)…

The Stork Missed A Stop

Mother’s Day is approaching, and like any other holiday it can be tough. I know there are many people who will be dreading Sunday. I’m sending prayers to the people who have lost mothers, lost children, wanted to become mothers, have bad relationships with their mother’s, and all of the rest of it. It’s easy…

For Better Or Worse

There have been reports that domestic violence and divorce rates have doubled during this COVID-19 Quarantine. Why can’t people get along? Shouldn’t spending time with your significant other be fun? Are we in such a daily routine that we don’t talk to our partners and don’t communicate with them? Is it just the frustration of…

Timelines In Relationships

“When is he going to ask you to be his girlfriend? When are you moving in together? When is he going to propose? When are you going to have kids? When will you have another kid? WOW! You have so many children. Don’t you think you have enough?” Some of us have been asked some…

Marked By Beauty

During this past holiday break I decided to go to work without wearing any makeup. I go to work without makeup pretty often. I love makeup, but if I’m tired or running late I don’t bother. There is this woman at work who always makes comments about me when she passes. You know…the nice nasty…

Pretty Privilege

Does your appearance give you an unfair advantage over others? Make no mistake, there are many types of privileged groups in the world. There are people who are thriving more easily in society than others due to the favor that their social standing gives them. There are people who have easier lives based on how…

8 Reasons Why Your Friend Ghosted You

If you know me, you know I try to be a good friend. We all fall short, but I really give it a good try. I feel that friends are the family that we choose. My family is my family and I didn’t have any say in that. My friends are in my life because…

We’ve All Been An Ariel At Some Point

I think that it’s absolutely amazing that Halle Bailey is going to be cast as Ariel in the upcoming Little Mermaid remake. She has a phenomenal voice and so much grace. I think it’s important that we teach our children that we can be different things, in different roles, and there is not just one…