How To Make: My Partner Listen

Serves: 2 Prep time: A while! Please be patient. Total time: Forever… once you get started you will have to continue. Ingredients Attentiveness | 2 drizzles Kindness | 3 cups An Open Mind | 1 whole unbiased mind Humility | 1 whole soul Patience | A dash of calm Compromise | 1 pinch (to taste)…

For Better Or Worse

There have been reports that domestic violence and divorce rates have doubled during this COVID-19 Quarantine. Why can’t people get along? Shouldn’t spending time with your significant other be fun? Are we in such a daily routine that we don’t talk to our partners and don’t communicate with them? Is it just the frustration of…

Multi-Dating: Is It Really A Good Idea?

One of my author friends Angel Sand asked a question on her Instagram. (You can purchase her book here.) The question was “How many people is too many to date at one time.” I thought this was an interesting topic because my views on the topic have changed recently. Let’s start with how I use…

Marked By Beauty

During this past holiday break I decided to go to work without wearing any makeup. I go to work without makeup pretty often. I love makeup, but if I’m tired or running late I don’t bother. There is this woman at work who always makes comments about me when she passes. You know…the nice nasty…

Why Low Self-Esteem Could Help You Find A Man

I have a lot of male friends and they give me a lot of insight on their views. Recently I made a post where I touched on the idea that intelligent men love intelligent women. Today I was texting a friend of mine and apparently it’s OK to be smart…just not TOOOO smart. Is there…

A Few Things Men Wish Women Knew

Are there things that men feel like we women just don’t understand about them? I wanted to find out. I asked a group of my guy friends from different ages, locations, and backgrounds and they say absolutely! Here are a few things that they told me that they wish women knew. You’re Not Listening Several…

Pretty Privilege

Does your appearance give you an unfair advantage over others? Make no mistake, there are many types of privileged groups in the world. There are people who are thriving more easily in society than others due to the favor that their social standing gives them. There are people who have easier lives based on how…

Why We Have Trouble Taking Our Own Advice

A big part of any relationship is listening. It can seem that there are times when our friends have problems that never ever end and we are literally exhausted from listening. I was going through a hard time, and I’m quite sure I irritated all of my friends. I had the same problem for like…

8 Reasons Why Your Friend Ghosted You

If you know me, you know I try to be a good friend. We all fall short, but I really give it a good try. I feel that friends are the family that we choose. My family is my family and I didn’t have any say in that. My friends are in my life because…